This blog is for everyone who has in~laws who make their life hell. Welcome to Hades! After years of putting up with this BS, I decided to tell my story.I have also recruited some fellow suffers to tell their stories, if you would like to join us just let me know. Misery loves company!!!!

Friday, November 28, 2008

Catching up on the BS my in-laws pull

I didn't realize I hadn't posted in so long.....................................

This is what has been going on since my FIL's funeral and now.

SBIL (Stupid Brother in law) calls his Mommy and whines how he is going to lose everything. MIL calls Dragon and convinces him that he owes it to his brother to loan him $1,500.00 because Dragon had a chance to go to college and SBIL didn't. Dragon studied hard made good grades and with a combination of PELL GRANTS & STUDENT LOANS went to college and got a BS degree. Money was very tight when we first got married due to having to pay off the loans. Which no one in his family helped us with.

Dragon had taken out a personal loan (yep another one, and this one has my name on it too) to repair our roof after it was damaged by a hurricane. We were planning to use the money that we had left over to pay off Dragon's truck because the interest rate on the truck was higher then the interest rate for the personal loan. Instead he gives the money to SBIL, even though I objected.

BB was in a car wreck and totaled his car. We can't afford to buy another one as we still have the loan on my car, the loan on Dragon's truck and the Personal loan to pay off, and two kids in college. SBIL has made no attempt to repay the money we loaned him two years ago. As a result I usually do not have a vehicle and spend the majority of my time stuck at home with no way to go anywhere. (there is no public transportation where we live).

Now MIL is making noises about how Dragon needs to fix up her house for her.................

I am so sick of these people and I am sick of Dragon.

Thanksgiving in Hades

As usual MIL ruined Thanksgiving. We were suppose to spend it with my family. And it's not like she hasn't seen us recently, we went to Hades for her birthday and spent the whole day with her. The kids didn't even get a chance to see my parents. So we are at my families Thanksgiving get together, as usual we were LATE thanks to Dragon, when his family started calling demanding that we come see them, and pulling the poor me routine. This year the routine involved how sick MIL was and how she was too sick to cook and could Dragon please run by so and so's house to pick up some food for her. So of course Dragon felt compelled to leave right then taking the kids with him. They hardly got to spend anytime with my parents. Now I am sitting home alone while he runs around visiting old girlfriends and their families. I can't even go anywhere as I no longer have a car due to a wreck.

I hate Thanksgiving!!!!